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The goal of the Dominant-submissive relationship is self-evolution for both the Dominant and the submissive to grow towards becoming the best that We can be as individuals and together. Each offers to the other the beauty, safety, comfort, love, acceptance and joy that is the meaning of true D/s. My desire is for My submissives and attendants to develop relationships with Me that foster excellence, happiness and fulfillment on all levels.
It is helpful to understand My definitions of the types of service I desire and accept into My Domain.
submissive. One who desires to please Me and cater to My every whim. you are trained to serve Me and your desires are to ensure My comfort, enjoyment and overall happiness. your job is to care for Me so that I can continue to care for you. My comfort is paramount. My submissives are My Personal Property.
attendant. One who desires to please Me for the sheer pleasure of doing so. My attendants are submissive, but serve as My social assistants in a variety of capacities including, but not limited to, escorts, bodyguards, chauffeurs, housekeepers, etc. My attendants are not My Property; they offer themselves to serve Me for mutual privilege and benefit. My requirements for attendants are the same as for submissives, except attendants are guests in My Domain where My submissives are residents.
slave. I do not desire slaves because I find them to be too much work and too little joy. Often, in My experience, people who desire to be slaves are needy, clingy, and need to be told every little thing. they do not wish to think for themselves and I find this to be a parasitic situation that I have no use for. I respect one’s desire to be a slave as much as I respect One’s desire to own slaves. It is simply not what I desire at this time.
patron. A visitor into the BDSM and D/s world who offers a tribute of My choosing to experience the pleasures of pleasing Me while stepping out of the vanilla world into the realm of the fantastic reality that is Me and Mine.
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The Mistress Didi*s Words of Wisdom
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My fabulous Grandmother always said: "Consider the source" whenever someone did something that disrupted My flow. That was some of the best advice that She ever gave Me ~ and She gave Me so much great advice!
How To Use This Great Advice:
As We all know, there are too many lazy individuals who take the slimey way out and operate from the lowest levels of consciousness and personal responsibility. It is easier for you, in your best interests, to pity them for making self-defeating choices; there can never be true happiness when you choose to be less than your best.
If the saying: There is only fear or love is true, then these offenders are seriously lacking love in their lives - not only love from others, but self-love. That makes them pathetic and having compassion for them also frees you from further concern and bother because you can choose what you want to do from a place of clarity.
So, if you consider the source of the aggravation, you do yourself a great service by releasing all attachment to that aggravation. I find that allowing Myself to have pity on, but not to tolerate or excuse offeders, keeps Me able to maintain My Fabulous Flow. Yes, this requires a bit of discipline, but that is the entire point of Mastery ~ which always begins and ends with Mastery of The Self.
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Because the selfish always believe they are above learning anything of value to contribute to what it is they desire to take from, they are ignorant to the fact that the Dynamic of Fetish Fulfillment is reciprocal.
This is not entirely their fault – the media and money-grubbing-exploiters are mucking up the concepts of Fetish en masse.
However, personal responsibility is always at the core of the realization of personal happiness and the fulfillment of one’s personal purpose – which IS the true purpose of indulging in The Fetish Lifestyle.
People need to accept responsibility for their contributions to the state of not only their own Fetish experiences, but the Fetish Scene on the whole – for good and for bad.
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