Wednesday, October 27, 2010

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PARTY CANCELED
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It's Fiendish,
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Friday, October 1, 2010

Consider The Source ~ Domina 101 Lesson

My fabulous Grandmother always said: "Consider the source" whenever someone did something that disrupted My flow. That was some of the best advice that She ever gave Me ~ and She gave Me so much great advice!

How To Use This Great Advice:

  1. Check In first to see what's going on with you that is causing you to be disturbed by someone's actions;

  2. Choose what you want to do. In other words, choose to respond rather than react. Give yourself the power in the situation and choose your greatest well-being;

  3. Clearly recognize the "quality of being" that the person who has annoyed you is putting forth. Translation: how is this person showing up? as a cool individual who may have made a mistake? as a complete jerk?; and

  4. Most importantly, forgive them. Whether or not a person intends to disrupt your peaceful flow, it is YOUR responsibility that your flow is disrupted. Forgiving them frees YOU from any further care for or about them.

As We all know, there are too many lazy individuals who take the slimey way out and operate from the lowest levels of consciousness and personal responsibility. It is easier for you, in your best interests, to pity them for making self-defeating choices; there can never be true happiness when you choose to be less than your best.

If the saying: There is only fear or love is true, then these offenders are seriously lacking love in their lives - not only love from others, but self-love. That makes them pathetic and having compassion for them also frees you from further concern and bother because you can choose what you want to do from a place of clarity.

So, if you consider the source of the aggravation, you do yourself a great service by releasing all attachment to that aggravation. I find that allowing Myself to have pity on, but not to tolerate or excuse offeders, keeps Me able to maintain My Fabulous Flow. Yes, this requires a bit of discipline, but that is the entire point of Mastery ~ which always begins and ends with Mastery of The Self.

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Tuesday, September 21, 2010

The Dynamic of Fetish Fulfillment


Because the selfish always believe they are above learning anything of value to contribute to what it is they desire to take from, they are ignorant to the fact that the Dynamic of Fetish Fulfillment is reciprocal.

This is not entirely their fault – the media and money-grubbing-exploiters are mucking up the concepts of Fetish en masse.

However, personal responsibility is always at the core of the realization of personal happiness and the fulfillment of one’s personal purpose – which IS the true purpose of indulging in The Fetish Lifestyle.

People need to accept responsibility for their contributions to the state of not only their own Fetish experiences, but the Fetish Scene on the whole – for good and for bad.

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Birthday Party News! Quick Newsletter!

At last! PARTY NEWS!!!!  My Birthday Party and the Official Launch of BetterFetish™ will be on Saturday, November 6th!

Details are in the New Issue of My Newsletter, The Mistress Didi* Commands, along with lots of fun, informative and stimulating things to give you a thrill!

There is also something VERY important that I request your attention to: STOPCRUSH.org.  This type of crush video business is NOT Fetish; it’s fiendish.  Be aware, informed and active.

So, take a look at My Newsletter for these goodies:

In This Issue:

MY BIRTHDAY PARTY 11/6 !!!
The Official Launch of  BetterFetish™

IMPORTANT: Protect Yourself
With The Winterizer

STOP CRUSH!
It’s Fiendish, NOT Fetish

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I will be in touch VERY soon.  Happy Beginning of Autumn!

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Sunday, September 12, 2010

The TRUE Discipline

Self-discipline is the only true discipline. You affect all there is at all times.

What happens on all levels is directly related to your perception and your choices.  Accept responsibility for them.

Think about how this concept looks in your life right now.  This is the key to creating your ideal reality.

Everything begins and ends with your Self.

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